Biography:Bushra Bibi

Short description: First Lady of Pakistan from 2018 to 2022 (born 1974)

Bushra Bibi
بشریٰ بی بی
First Lady of Pakistan
In role 18 August 2018 – 10 April 2022
Prime Minister	Imran Khan
Preceded by	Samina Shahid Abbasi
Succeeded by	Begum Nusrat Shahbaz Tehmina Durrani
Personal details
Born	Bushra Riaz Wattoo (1971-03-12) 12 March 1971 Pakpattan, Punjab, Pakistan
Spouse(s)	Khawar Maneka (m. 1989; div. 2017) Imran Khan (m. 2018)
Children	5

Bushra Bibi (Urdu, Punjabi: بشریٰ بی بی) is the third spouse of Imran Khan, the former Prime Minister of Pakistan. She and Khan married six months before he assumed office as Prime Minister.

Early life

Bibi was born to a conservative, politically influential family from central Punjab. She belongs to the Wattoo clan, a landowning Jat group, of whom the Manekas are a sub-clan. She originates from the town of Pakpattan, located 250 km southwest of Lahore. The town is known for being home to the Shrine of Baba Farid, of whom both she and Khan are spiritual followers, and where they first met.

Personal life

First marriage

Bibi married Khawar Maneka in 1989. Khawar Maneka was a senior Customs official and a son of Ghulam Muhammad Maneka, a former federal minister in Benazir Bhutto's cabinet. His brother Ahmad Raza Maneka is currently a member of the National Assembly of Pakistan, and is affiliated with the PML-N. They divorced in 2017. She has three daughters and two sons from her first marriage. Her sons Musa and Ebrahim Maneka graduated from the Aitchison College in Lahore in 2013, and pursued higher education abroad. Her eldest daughter Mehru Maneka is the daughter-in-law of politician Mian Atta Muhammad Manika. Another of her daughters is also married.

On 6 August 2018, it was reported that Mehru Maneka had joined Khan's PTI following a meeting with him.

Marriage to Imran Khan

Khan and Bibi reportedly met for the first time in 2015. According to Dawn, Khan, noted for his increasing inclination towards Sufism in recent decades, was a frequent visitor of Baba Farid's shrine in Pakpattan, where he would pay homage to the renowned 12th-century Sufi saint. He usually visited the town in the evening escorted by his private guards, and would later stay for a few hours at the Maneka family's residence, his local hosts, after which he would return to Islamabad. The Manekas were influential locally, and shared a "spiritual relationship" with Khan. Bushra, who was at that time married to Khawar Maneka, was a known and respected Sufi scholar, spiritual mentor and faith healer, also referred to as a pir or murshid, and this is what reportedly drew Khan closer to her. She has been described as a leader of pilgrimages to Baba Farid's shrine. During his visits, Khan would often consult her on spiritual matters whenever he found himself in a "difficult situation."

My interest in Sufism started 30 years ago. It changed my life. Sufism is an order with many levels, but I have never met anyone who is as high as my wife. My interest in her began with that.

—Imran Khan in an interview, regarding his marriage to Bushra Bibi.

According to Khan, the couple were introduced via Bibi’s sister Maryam Riaz Wattoo, who is a PTI member, whilst he was trying to understand the teachings of a 13th-century Sufi saint. He would visit Bibi’s house to receive counsel and advice on these and other religious matters, and "read the books she would recommend". According to sources, Khan interacted with Bibi shortly before the 2015 by-election in Lodhran for the NA-154 constituency. He became "very pleased" when his candidate Jehangir Tareen won that election, which she had correctly predicted, and started visiting and consulting her more regularly for guidance. According to a family source, Khan held "a lot of reverence for [Bushra] as a true follower." As the visits became more frequent, their personal understanding also grew. However, the prospect of marriage never surfaced until Khan learnt of Bushra's divorce. In an interview after his marriage, Khan said he "did not catch a glimpse" of his wife's face until after they were married; "I proposed to her without seeing her because she had never met me without her face being covered with a full veil." He acknowledged that he had seen only an "old photograph" of her at her house prior to that. When he finally did see her, he was not disappointed and is "now happily married."

Talking about how her life changed after marrying Khan, she said that before her marriage her life revolved around praying to God, but Imran taught her that serving the helpless and needy is equally important. Khan, known for his previous relationships, insisted his attitude had changed over time and he came to believe that "the character of a person and the mind, the intellect, is much more important than the physical, because in my experience that has the smallest shelf life." He has referenced his respect to his wife based on her intellect and character. A few months after their marriage, the couple went on a pilgrimage to Makkah. Bushra has been described as an introvert who prefers to stay at home rather than attending social functions and gatherings very frequently, to which Khan admittedly has no objections, as he himself is "past the age of socialising". According to Khan, his two sons have met Bushra, while he has also had time to get to know Bushra's children following their marriage. With regards to her marriage with Imran, Bibi has clarified that, contrary to some reports in the media, her Nikkah with Imran took place seven months after the ‘Iddat period’ following the dissolution of her first marriage. Bibi has also clarified that she is not present on social media and any accounts attributed to her are fake.

As First Lady

Bibi is reportedly the first Niqab-wearing spouse of a Pakistani Prime Minister. The decision to wear a Niqab, Bibi said, is her personal choice in line with religious teachings and she is not seeking to impose it on anyone else. Shortly after Khan took office, Bibi was quoted by the media as being "afraid" and commented "I am sure Imran Khan will fulfill his promises to Pakistan. Allah has given us a great responsibility. Power comes and goes. Imran Khan aims to eliminate poverty from the country. He wants to improve the health and education system in Pakistan." Bibi has described Imran as an "extremely simple man". Talking about the PTI's slogan and promise of "change", she claimed that only Imran can bring about the promised change in the country but it would take time.

Alleged extramarital affair

In an exclusive interview to anchor person Shahzeb Khanzada, former husband of Bibi, Khawar Maneka revealed that Bibi was allegedly involved in an extramarital affair with the former prime minister Imran Khan during the time when Bibi was still married to Maneka. Maneka also alleges that Bibi married Khan before completion of her compulsory Iddah period required under Islamic family law. Maneka claims that he divorced Bibi on 14 November 2017, while Bibi tied the knot with Khan in January 2018.

See also

• Family of Imran Khan
• Bhumman Shah

References

Honorary titles
Preceded by Samina Shahid Abbasi	Spouse of the Prime Minister of Pakistan 2018–2022	Succeeded by Tehmina Durrani