Social:Black Love Day
Black Love Day is an annual celebration that takes place February 13. Complementary to Valentine's Day (February 14), Black Love Day is meant to focus on self-love, connection, and preservation of culture, particularly in the African American community, rather than romantic love.[1]
History
Black Love Day was first celebrated in Washington, D.C., in 1993.[2] It was conceived by community organizer Ayo Handy-Kendi who, after seeing the film Malcolm X in the theatre, felt compelled by a higher power (called "the creator") to do something to foster unity.[2][3]
In 1994, after the death of her son to violence, Handy-Kendi added a "relationship ceremony" to the observance, in which someone chooses to forgive another who wronged them, or apologize for having wronged someone else.[2]
Observance
The symbol of Black Love Day is the akoma (heart), which represents love, unity, and patience in West African culture.[4] Participants greet each other with the phrase nya akoma (get a heart, be patient).[5]
Each year the celebration has a different theme,[6] but is always based on five tenets: "love toward the Creator, love for self, love for the family, love within the Black community and love for Black people."[7][8]
See also
- Black Day (South Korea)
- Black History Month
- Kwanzaa
References
- ↑ Jameelah, Yasmine (February 13, 2023). "Why Black Love Day Actually Isn’t About Romantic Love". https://blacklove.com/why-black-love-day-actually-isnt-about-romantic-love/.
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 2.2 Decaille, Nia (February 13, 2024). "What Is Black Love Day?". The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2024/02/13/style/black-love-day-ayo-handy-kendi.html.
- ↑ "BLD history". African American Holiday Association. https://www.africanamericanholidays.org/bld-history.html.
- ↑ Shaikh, Faria (August 5, 2024). "Akoma: Embracing the Symbol of Love in Kumasi". Media in Ghana. University of Oregon. https://ghana.uoregon.edu/2024/08/05/akoma-embracing-the-symbol-of-love-in-kumasi/.
- ↑ Scott, Megan (February 13, 2003). "The other day of the heart: Black Love Day". The St. Petersburg Times.
- ↑ Anderson, Zuri (February 13, 2024). "Black Love Day: Embracing Everything Black Ahead Of Valentine's Day". Black Information Network. https://www.binnews.com/content/2021-02-04-black-love-day-embracing-everything-black-ahead-of-valentines-day/.
- ↑ Kai, Maiysha (February 13, 2022). "Have you heard of Black Love Day?". https://thegrio.com/2022/02/13/black-love-day/.
- ↑ Coral, Racquel (February 10, 2022). "5 Ways to Celebrate Black Love Day". The Chicago Defender. https://chicagodefender.com/5-ways-to-celebrate-black-love-day.
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